consideration of other people’s feelings? in relation to your own, to those of other people, to those betwixt other people? i keep thinking i know and then forgetting and then overcompensating and then forgetting again and then remembering and then feeling guilty and then thinking wait, why am i feeling guilty? and then wondering again how much is too much.
i guess motivation is key. some things matter, and some don’t, and sometimes it’s not up to you to decide which is which.